If…Then… NFP and Dreams for Catholic Women

Guest post by Olivia McCarthy A few weeks ago, I published a post on Instagram that went viral-for-me. I used a series of “if…then…” statements to follow the logic of what must also be true if the statement “NFP can be used with a contraceptive mentality” is true. It’s a valuable logical strategy to determine…

Dominic’s Birth Story

Prayers that were answered. Hope that was fulfilled. And the paradox of the whole process of birth.

Don’t pray for healing.

AKA: what happens when you don’t write for months, and then get to a place where you’re ready to say everything all at once. This one is about my current pregnancy.

I Didn’t Give Birth.

I’ve shared my birth stories before. And I can finally admit I didn’t share the truth.

How Therapy Changed My Experience of Confession

Stating the truth out loud, no matter how ashamed I was or how painful it felt to do so, and then being seen and loved right where I was, was always the first step to feeling and being free. 

A Crazy Invitation to Hope

How the latest curveball in my fertility is a crazy – and deeply healing – invitation to Hope.

FAQ: “How far is too far?”

How far is too far? is a question I’ve been hearing a lot! And the biggest problem with is that it’s the wrong question.

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About Me

Hi, I’m Emily. A Cajun cradle Catholic who isn’t afraid to admit that living a faithful life is both hard and beautiful. I like to take on tough topics with blunt honesty and a healthy dose of humor. If that sounds like what you need, dive on in! I’m so glad you’re here.

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Here at Total Whine, you’ll find a place where topics like NFP, sex, marriage and motherhood are all discussed through the lens of Catholic Church teaching in an honest and joyful way.

This is the corner of the internet where TMI goes to die, where curiosity is recognized as the condition of learning truth, and honest questions receive honest answers. Because we serve the God of Truth. And Truth sets us free.